Stop after an explicit rejection: persistent harassment is a public-order offense, not proof of sincerity
In China, from January 2026, continuing to harass someone after rejection can be a public-order offense. Penalties include detention for up to 5 days or a fine of up to RMB 1,000; more serious cases bring 5–10 days' detention. Police may also prohibit contact, with a further 5–10 days' detention for violating the order.
What it takes
No money or time. The challenge is stopping yourself from sending more messages or waiting for the person.
What you may gain
China's revised Public Security Administration Punishments Law, effective January 1, 2026, specifically covers repeatedly sending obscene, insulting or threatening messages, or using harassment, persistent unwanted contact or stalking to disrupt another person's normal life. The penalty is detention for up to 5 days or a fine of up to RMB 1,000. More serious cases carry 5–10 days' detention, with an optional additional fine of up to RMB 1,000. With approval from the head of the public security organ, the offender may be prohibited from contacting the victim for a specified period. Violating that prohibition brings another 5–10 days' detention.
Context & considerations
No research supports the belief that relentless pursuit will eventually win someone over; detention and no-contact orders are explicit legal consequences. A record can also affect Chinese civil-service or public-institution applications, political vetting and eligibility for some occupations. The distinction between pursuing someone and harassing them is not determined by your intentions: take their explicit rejection seriously.
Research & references
Standing Committee of China's National People's Congress (2025 revision). Public Security Administration Punishments Law, Article 50, paragraph 1(5) and paragraph 2. https://www.spp.gov.cn/spp/fl/202506/t20250627_699863.shtml (reprinted by the Supreme People's Procuratorate).